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by Kevin M. Sanders
Although the lives of Kathy
Gebard and Bridget Wagner, D.O. (’94), were
tragically ended in a plane crash Oct. 19, their
contributions to OU-COM will be an enduring part of the college’s
excellence in medical education.
On Tuesday, Nov. 2, the
college’s memorial to the lives and service of two of its most
valued colleagues, held in the shadow of a national election,
resounded with themes of love, dedication, accomplishment and
professionalism.
As a gentle autumn rain fell
upon the campus and surrounding community, tears quite often
misted the eyes of those gathered in Irvine 194 to honor Kathy
and Bridget.
“Kathy and Bridget were two
extraordinary members of the OU-COM family,” said Dean Jack
Brose, D.O. “In the past two weeks of speaking about them to
people all over the United States, I discovered that there were
many similarities between them.
“Both of them were absolutely
dedicated to our students. Both acted as teachers, friends and,
also, mothers to our students. They were sincerely loved by our
students and our staff.
“Both were spectacular mothers
who were absolutely dedicated to their families. Both were
concerned about their fellow human beings and participated in
many projects to help people who were less fortunate.”
But they were, of course,
unique as well.
“Kathy,” said Brose, “was one
of those folks who had a really magical smile. Her warm and
supportive manner melted away people’s differences and brought
them together. She was the perfect combination of kindness and
competence. It is not possible to replace someone as Kathy.
“Bridget was as kind and caring
as any physician I’ve ever known. She was a bundle of energy
with an infectious smile, full of talents and ideas. She also
was an Olympic-class gymnast, who was full of mischief,” Brose
noted with a smile.
Both were more than just
colleagues, he said. “They were valued friends.”
“Today is an opportunity for
all of us to remember and celebrate these two remarkable women
and to hear memories from other OU-COM family members who cared
very deeply for them,” Brose said to an audience of around 150
in the Irvine auditorium. The memorial also was video cast to
many more who were at the college’s Centers for Osteopathic
Research and Education sites at St. Joseph Health Center in
Warren, Grandview Hospital and Medical Center in Dayton, St.
Vincent Mercy Medical Center in Toledo, Cuyahoga Falls General
Hospital Cuyahoga Falls and Firelands Regional Health Center in
Sandusky.
Gebard was an administrator in
the college’s CORE system and had worked for the college since
1989. Wagner, a 1994 graduate of the medical school, was
assistant dean for the CORE system. Both died while en route
together to a meeting at Kirksville College of Osteopathic
Medicine in Kirksville, Mo.
Dean Brose then introduced
Roderick McDavis, Ph.D., president of Ohio University.
“Ohio University likes to think
of itself as a family,” said McDavis. “So on Oct. 19, we also
lost family.”
“The sorrow that we feel, the
pain of the loss is tempered by the understanding that they are
with God as we speak. Today is a day for us to come together as
a family to celebrate, to remember, but most importantly, that
when we leave this place, to have part of Kathy and Bridget in
our consciousness everyday — so that, part of what we do
reflects the lives that they lived.”
Colleagues of Kathy and Bridget
then offered readings and emotion-laden, and sometimes humorous,
remembrances of them. They told stories of appreciation and
dedication, recited tearful poems of inspiration and of the
“strong links of love left behind,” and recounted Kathy's and
Bridget’s unselfish advocacy and service, and their vibrant humanity.
They honored their spirits, all
the while connecting them to a Spirit that overshadows us all.
“‘This is eternity,’” said
Sharon Zimmerman, director of alumni affairs, “‘and all I’ve
promised you. Your life on earth is ended, but here life starts
anew,’” reciting the words of God from the poem, “If Tomorrow
Starts Without Me.”
“The best tribute to them,”
said Rev. Leon Forte, a friend of Wagner and pastor to several
students that Kathy had mentored, “is to keep their spirits
alive.”
The memorial ended with “The
Lord’s Prayer,” sung by Ralph Amos, University executive
director of alumni relations. A stirring instrumental, “Secret
Maze,” by Mark Atteberry, a relative of the Gebard family,
filled the auditorium as the audience left to enjoy a reception
and to share memories of their loved ones.
A memorial service for Kathy
will also be held at Grandview Hospital Tuesday, Nov. 16, at
noon in the auditorium and for Bridget at Christ Episcopal
Church in Warren Thursday, Nov. 18, at 1 p.m.
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